Why is this so bad? I personally LOVE IT when a guy shoots this fast! Makes me so fucking horny, yum yum! No one said he can't cum again, so what's the problem?
I don`t get the whole idea focused on first fast ejaculation, if girl is hot i personally never lost a hard-on after that, so not a big deal. If he can`t - not a big deal, just train a little bit, with proper training you wont lose hardon at all. Usual sex for me always was fast first, then 10-15 mins 2nd, and about an hour till 3rd - you absolutely shouldnt keep it under control, this way its feels natural and superexciting.In fact i always had another problem - chasing this 2 (3 if we have time) orgasms it was quite hard to remember and pull out, that`s why few of my GFs got pregnant after 1st intercourse - totally lost my head and creampied inside of those sweet tight pussy.